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I used to be full of confidence but since my last relationship break-up confidence has greatly reduced as time has gone by still single. I'd say just ask them out and think about the consequences after (of course presuming you're asking someone you really like). Just think to yourself that there's nothing to lose if they say no, and if they do say no...they should be understanding about it. If they're not understanding about it, they probably weren't good enough to be with anywayTreefingers wrote:To summarise:
I always assume girls I like would prefer somebody better looking with a better personality, so I fail to get the courage to ask them out.
Any suggestions?
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Top advice Liam!BrandNewRetro wrote:I used to be full of confidence but since my last relationship break-up confidence has greatly reduced as time has gone by still single. I'd say just ask them out and think about the consequences after (of course presuming you're asking someone you really like). Just think to yourself that there's nothing to lose if they say no, and if they do say no...they should be understanding about it. If they're not understanding about it, they probably weren't good enough to be with anywayTreefingers wrote:To summarise:
I always assume girls I like would prefer somebody better looking with a better personality, so I fail to get the courage to ask them out.
Any suggestions?
You shouldn't judge yourself like that. Don't point out what flaws you have that others seem to be better at; look at yourself in all of your awesomeness and just take a step back and gaaazzeee. Seriously, if you don't have confidence in your own individuality, you'll never become greater. I had the exact same problem for years, and I would literally stay stagnant in my personality pool, becoming depressed, negatively out-looking the future, blah blah blah. But you need to see that it is YOU who is thinking these thoughts, and it is you who filters your own thought process. YOU need to overcome this self-criticism that your mind creates for you and break free from these constraints. Realize you can be whatever the hell you want to be and that you also have skills and talents that no one could ever possibly take from you.Treefingers wrote:To summarise:
I always assume girls I like would prefer somebody better looking with a better personality, so I fail to get the courage to ask them out.
Any suggestions?
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good plan747Music wrote:That's why I avoided dating in high school.(parenthesis) wrote:Im 15 and i dumped my girlfriend and the whole fucking school is going apeshit. Jesus, I didn't know this was such a big deal. Now people I've never met are telling me that they hate my guts, lol. I think I will miss highschool
No, I won't. Please go away. I don't like you.
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I haven't been in a serious relationship in 5 or 6 years. I've been dating a girl since the end of last year and she is amazing. I consider myself to be more of an adult than I was 6 years ago so I kind of consider this to be my first REAL relationship. I'm a lucky guy.

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I was unfortunately in a relationship with the same girl all through highschool.. I learned absolutely nothing about myself and pretty much wasted all of those years when considering personal growth. I should have listened to my mom and dated around.747Music wrote:That's why I avoided dating in high school.(parenthesis) wrote:Im 15 and i dumped my girlfriend and the whole fucking school is going apeshit. Jesus, I didn't know this was such a big deal. Now people I've never met are telling me that they hate my guts, lol. I think I will miss highschool
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that's what i'm scared of.meat like product wrote:
I was unfortunately in a relationship with the same girl all through highschool.. I learned absolutely nothing about myself and pretty much wasted all of those years when considering personal growth. I should have listened to my mom and dated around.
as an update, in a week, it will have been 9 months with my current girlfriend.
however, i've only had two others, and only one of those do i consider even being remotely serious.
kinda scared i won't have explored other personalities (including my own) by the time i'm pretty much out of the dating game.
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